Advice

Sex and sextoy advice, drawn from 20+ years advising women & couples. We understand that your sexuality is individual and unique, so whether you visit us in store, contact us online or by phone or simply browse our online guides, we’ll give honest, upfront advice that’s personal and expertly tailored with one aim; to help you discover your own true sexual self.

Celebrating international women’s day with empowering classes

Somehow, it is already March 2019 and that can mean only one thing: get your party poppers at the ready because it’s about to be International Women’s Day (IWD) on March 8! #BalanceForBetter is this year’s theme and is all about bringing societal and professional equality to the entire world: trans/WOC/sex-worker inclusive. But how many … Continue reading Celebrating international women’s day with empowering classes

Can yoga really improve your shagging prowess?

Yoga is a great way to tone your abs and increase agility. It’s also an ancient spiritual practice, similar to Buddhism, that has been developed and nurtured for over 5,000 years. Roughly translating as “union”, yoga encourages the merging of breath, mind and body. It revolves around the conscious decision of a person to “stay … Continue reading Can yoga really improve your shagging prowess?

My vagina is a penetration-free zone – here’s why…

Non-penetrative sex. Yes, it exists. And it can be better than what you might think of as “normal” sex. Your largest organ is your skin and that skin is packed with erogenous zones all over your body. From your armpit to your knee, arousal can be experienced through different types of stimulation, yet many of … Continue reading My vagina is a penetration-free zone – here’s why…

Women’s Weekend in Southampton

We are thrilled to announce our participation in the VieNess Women’s Weekend in Southampton on Sunday March 3rd! Organised by the wonderful Vie Portland, a long-time chamion of women’s causes, the Women’s Weekend is the perfect way to grab some much-needed me-time whilst still having fun. “I know women are incredible, however, far too frequently, they … Continue reading Women’s Weekend in Southampton

The LOL Word Comedy Night at Sh!

Like comedy? Like queer women? Then you’ll love The LOL Word! That’s right: your favourite LGBTQ+ women and non-binary comedians, The LOL Word, are descending upon London’s finest sex emporium Sh! for a night of raucous, inclusive, sex-positive and hilarious comedy. Not only will you see the comedy scene’s finest award-winning queer talent, but you’ll also … Continue reading The LOL Word Comedy Night at Sh!

Orgie’s Natural High: Hemp Seed Oil Lube

You wanted it – you got it! Due to popular demand, we have searched high and low for our favourite hemp seed oil infused lubricant. Not only that, but we’ve gone and found an orgasm enhancer as well. Wait…hemp oil in a sex product? If you find yourself a tad bemused by this combo then … Continue reading Orgie’s Natural High: Hemp Seed Oil Lube

Celebrating Solo This Valentine’s Day?

Traditionally a night for lovers to spend hours and hours sweating it out between the sheets, Valentine’s can be a little sore for those who find themselves without someone to bump & grind with. You could organise a night out with other singletons, or set up a Tinder account specifically for hooking up on this one … Continue reading Celebrating Solo This Valentine’s Day?

Valentine’s Day for Two or More

It’s the most sensual time of the year again (isn’t it always?). Saint Valentine is flapping his wings and sprinkling rose petals all over the shop. Love it or hate it, the 14th February is the perfect opportunity to give your special someone/s a token of your unwavering adoration. For those who usually struggle to … Continue reading Valentine’s Day for Two or More

Q&A: Get that ocean back in motion – how to combat vaginal dryness

Hello, I am in my mid-50s, out of a sexual relationship for over 5 years, and experiencing serious vaginal dryness (PAP smear exams are excruciating.) I am also a sex toy newbie, so I would appreciate advice on what vibrator to use. I don’t have any issues with orgasm — very easy — but I … Continue reading Q&A: Get that ocean back in motion – how to combat vaginal dryness