HOW TO INTRODUCE A VIBRATOR TO YOUR LOVER A top designer or luxury vibrator could be a great choice: the dashing good looks of a luxury designer vibrator say embrace me rather than reject me! But any vibrator, designer or high street, can add sparkle to a relationship but it's wise to to tread carefully as hurt feelings are a real passion killer! Unless you are 100% confident, we dont recommend introducing a vibrator, luxury or otherwise
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HOW TO INTRODUCE A VIBRATOR TO YOUR LOVER

A top designer or luxury vibrator could be a great choice: the dashing good looks of a luxury designer vibrator say embrace me rather than reject me!

But any vibrator, designer or high street, can add sparkle to a relationship but it's wise to to tread carefully as hurt feelings are a real passion killer!

Unless you are 100% confident, we dont recommend introducing a vibrator, luxury or otherwise, whilst actually in bed together. It could spark fireworks of the wholly un-erotic sort!

Introduce the idea of a vibrator away from the the bedroom but still within a warm, romantic situation is best - raise the subject whilst enjoying a bath or romantic meal together.

Use words that involve rather than alienate your lover. You don't want them to feel you are dissatisfied with your sex life. Tiny nuances make a big difference!

" I would love it if we played with a vibrator" expresses your togetherness and how much their pleasure is central to your enjoyment.

Whereas "I would love to play with a vibrator" sounds very single-minded. More desperate than desirable!

It's natural to feel flustered or embarrassed about raising the subject? Get close to your lover and whisper in their ear; With less voice volume and eye contact required, you'll feel more confident. Plus they won't even notice your rosy cheeks!

Embarrassment can cause us either to yammer or clam up completely; neither of which will help you hear your lover's true response. Take a relaxing sip of wine and a deep breath before you sidle up to them.

Don't mention any previous sex-toy encounters unless you know they'll find it hot.

Relegate to the past, too, any vibrators that may be collecting dust under your bed. A second-hand vibrator may hold too much history for your current lover to swallow.

Buying a vibrator together can boost more than your toy box - it can open up communication and intimacy between you.
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