INTRODUCING A VIBRATOR TO YOUR LOVER A top designer or luxury vibrator could be a great choice: their dashing good looks somehow naturally say embrace me rather than reject me! Any vibrator can add a groove to sex with a lover but it's wise to to tread carefully as hurt feelings are a real passion killer! Top Tip: WATCH YOUR LANGUAGE! Unless you are 100% confident, we wouldn't recommend whipping out any vibrator, luxury or otherwise, whil
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INTRODUCING A VIBRATOR TO YOUR LOVER

A top designer or luxury vibrator could be a great choice: their dashing good looks somehow naturally say embrace me rather than reject me!

Any vibrator can add a groove to sex with a lover but it's wise to to tread carefully as hurt feelings are a real passion killer!

Top Tip: WATCH YOUR LANGUAGE!
Unless you are 100% confident, we wouldn't recommend whipping out any vibrator, luxury or otherwise, whilst you're actually in bed together. It could spark fireworks of the wholly un-erotic sort!

Introduce the idea of a vibrator away from the heat of the bedroom but still within a warm, romantic situation is top advice, so raise the subject whilst enjoying a bath or romantic meal together.

You want your lover to embrace the idea of a vibrator rather than feel like you are dissatisfied with your sex life so use words that involve rather than alienate them. Tiny nuances can make all the difference

For instance, saying " I would love it if we played with a vibrator expresses your togetherness and how much their pleasure is central to your enjoyment.

Whereas saying " I would love to play with a vibrator" sounds very single-minded. More desperate than desirable!

Top Tip: GET UP CLOSE & PERSONAL
Bit flustered or embarrassed about raising the subject? Don't worry - is quite natural. Get up close to your lover and whisper in their ear; With less voice volume and eye contact required, you'll feel more confident. Plus they won't even notice your rosy cheeks! Embarrassment can cause us either to yammer or clam up completely; neither of which will help you hear your lover's true response. Take a relaxing sip of wine and a deep breath before you sidle up to them.

Top Tip: A SECOND HAND VIBRATOR IS A NO-NO!
Mentioning any previous sex-toy encounters is not necessary. This will be your first time with them so don't dilute it with what is history.

Relegate to the past, too, any sex toys that may be collecting dust under your bed. A second-hand vibrator may hold too much history for your current lover to swallow.

Top Tip: YOUR JOURNEY STARTS HERE!
In our experience, couples get much more than simply an a overflowing toy-box when they choose a vibrator together. Browsing as a couple opens up communication and intimacy. Chatting over sex toys gets you giggling together, fires up imaginations and fantasies and set up the thrill of anticipation of what might happen ...

With a top selection of the best sex toys, friendly atmosphere and expert advice, a foreplay date surfing the Sh! Store might be the perfect place to start your adventures in love!.