A Strap-On is simply a dildo coupled with a harness. Sounds easy! But, with the 100's of different dildo/harness styles & colours we manufacture, we do know that strap-on shopping can be mind-boggling.
So, we've put together the most popular strap-on combos, bought at our London store.
In each Strap On kit, you will find everything you'll need for a night of strap-on seduction; A high quality dildo & harness, plus lubricant and condoms, all packed in a stylish gift box, so you can store your strap-on neatly under your bed.
Click to view each Strap-On Dildo kit below
And scroll down for strap-on dildo reviews & advice, plus how to introduce a strap-on dildo to your lover...
Awesome! This was my first strap on experience while my partner had tried it before. I was a little ..
By Talex
This is the first strap-on that I have purchased with my girlfriend (we are a lesbian couple) and wh..
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I purchased this as a strap on virgin . Wanting to experiment with my partner I was quite nervous ab..
Lowdown on Strap On Dildo Kits
Why we dont sell all-in-one strap on dildos
We dont sell standard sex-industry strap-ons, where the dildo is permanently fixed to the harness, because they're impossible to keep clean around the join - even if you always use a condom, lube & body fluids build up. But that's just 1 reason we dont rate these kind of strap on dildos....
Bra-Strap Strap-On Dildo: Unworkable, Unruly & Ugly!This kind of strap-on aims to attach a dildo to you, using show more>
Why we dont sell all-in-one strap on dildos
We dont sell standard sex-industry strap-ons, where the dildo is permanently fixed to the harness, because they're impossible to keep clean around the join - even if you always use a condom, lube & body fluids build up.
But that's just 1 reason we dont rate these kind of strap on dildos....
Bra-Strap Strap-On Dildo: Unworkable, Unruly & Ugly! This kind of strap-on aims to attach a dildo to you, using flimsy elasticated straps. The problem is, if the dildo is too heavy, the harness doesn't stay up and if the dildo is too light, it twangs back on the operator. Plus these strapons are mostly ugly, with the dildo trying to be " "realistic"; An unhealthy orange-colour and an insult to male members everywhere!
Rubber Panty Strap-On Dildo: Requires Oxygen! This kind of strap-on is made from a ubertight pair of rubber panties. It requires saint-like patience to get on, oxygen whilst in use & surgery to get off!
Sex-industry strap-on dildos get the definite thumbs down from us - we reckon they're 'designed by someone who's never worn nor operated a strap-on dildo in their life!
We do however have 1 good thing to say about these kinds of strap-on dildos - they gave us the impetus, over 15 years ago, to produce our own quality strapons.
A Sh! Strap-On Dildo is functional, high quality, good-looking and easy to keep clean...
And because it comes in 2 parts; Harness & silicone dildo, a Sh! Strap-On is also highly bespoke & individual.
HOW TO INTRODUCE A STRAP-ON DILDO TO YOUR LOVER:
Stage One of enjoying a strap on dildo is to introduce it to your lover. One person can have fun with a strap-on dildo but never as much as two!!
Unless, as a couple, you've already shared strap on fantasies together, or your lover has dropped hints, it’s never a good idea to just slip on a strap-on dildo and shout “surprise!!”
Only you know how much tact and diplomacy may be needed show more>
HOW TO INTRODUCE A STRAP-ON DILDO TO YOUR LOVER:
Stage One of enjoying a strap on dildo is to introduce it to your lover. One person can have fun with a strap-on dildo but never as much as two!!
Unless, as a couple, you've already shared strap on fantasies together, or your lover has dropped hints, it’s never a good idea to just slip on a strap-on dildo and shout “surprise!!”
Only you know how much tact and diplomacy may be needed when introducing the idea of a strap on dildo to your lover.
Sex toys can cause surprising reactions, so even if you’re pretty confident of a delighted response, it’s probably best to tread carefully at first. Let patience and leisurely seduction be your mantra.
Beware of bulldozing in with “I wanna play with a strapon dildo….” At best, it sounds very "me-me" with little thought for their desires.
At worse, you’ll seem desperate and dissatisfied with your sex life.
As for any previous strap on experience, unless you both get hot reminiscing about former sexual encounters, it’s wise to not mention former strap-on encounters; Afterall this’ll be your first time exploring strap-on sex together.
Whispering your strap on fantasy, away from the heat of the bedroom, but still within a loved-up atmosphere (a romantic bath together?) is a good way to test the water. Whet their appetite ( as well as other places … ) by turning them onto the idea and be sure to use words that involve them: “I have this fantasy where we’re playing with a strapon dildo…” - maybe simply talking about it together will cause things to get steamy...
Anticipation spices up any sexual encounter. Use it at every stage of strap on seduction and you can’t go far wrong. From choosing your DILDO together, to it sliding into a
STRAP ON HARNESS, to
LUBING IT UP , to the best bit; teasing your lover mercilessly with your new strap on.
Enjoy!
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