How to Use Anal Toys and Explore Anal Sex...
Starting gently with
well lubed finger and then progressing to a
slim anal sex toy , a
graduated butt plug toy or a
slim butt plug toy is a much better, gentler, less scary introduction than having to “take” his enormous member or her giant dildo ( and they will seem big, believe us!) the first time you try it
Before you experiment with anal sex or toys, first put on a Latex Glove ( to make fingers feel super smooth as well as to protect delicate tushies from any snaggy/long nails), cover with lashings of lube and have a go yourself.
Try rubbing a finger around the rim of the anus and slightly inside: both areas are highly sensitive and stimulating them can feel very pleasurable.
The more stimulated you are, the more relaxed your bum will become. Anal muscles must be really relaxed before even thinking about putting a toy or penis inside. Any slim anal sex toy is a good starter toy.
Once in, just keep the toy still for a while, until you become accustomed to the sensations. Any potential “pain” is when something first enters the rectum as the muscles around the anus have a strong & involuntary desire to tense-up; anal tissue is sensitive and delicate so it's all too easy to cause tiny tears.
Relaxed muscles and lots of lube will protect you fom getting hurt and putting you off anal play.
Starting slowly, gently slide a finger or anal sex toy inside, testing the sensations as you go ~ this will help to give you lots of confidence. Don't use any movement until you're more than ready. A
Butt Plug is a good toy for this: Designed to go in and stay put, it will help you get acquainted with the muscles in your bum and the sensations on offer. Squeezing and relaxing against a butt plug sex toy will help you to learn to better control the muscle, and go onto enjoying lots of relaxed, pleasure-filled anal sex.
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