Bondage & BDSM is a meant to be a litte scary but never in a way that's unsafe.
1: Agree Safe Words when playing with Bondage / BDSM Scenes/Toys which instantly
halt the game or ease up on the action. Honour these safe words absolutely -
it's the only way to ensure the physical and emotional safety of the
submissive player. Safe words cant be words you might say during your game so words like "stop" "No" "Please" are no good! Common safewords are: "YELLOW" meaning "Ease Up - I'm not ready to stop but am feeling a bit unsafe" and "RED" meaning "Stop NOW"
2. Agree Boundaries within your Bondage/BDSM Game: and communicate! Any game based on power can resurrect
buried feelings in a partner who's been abused. It's important to communicate any no-go areas and vital
that boundaries are agreed upon before playing starts.
3. Safe Bondage: When using bondage on your lover, never enclose their nose AND mouth at the same time. Never bind your lover face down on
soft furnishing and never leave them tied-up alone. Regularly check toes and fingers for numbness/coolness as these are signs that blood has
stopped flowing to the area and its time to untie.
4. Wide Bondage: Use wide, strong bondage like proper
Bondage Wrist Cuffs and
Bondage Ankle Cuffs Silk scarves may seem gentler & less threatening than proper bondage gear but they can
tighten during the the game and pinch - they can even cause permanent nerve damage.
5. Get informed: There are plenty of great books that explain safe bondage/ BDSM.... Take a look at the
FETISH SECTION for books that will advise & inspire your bondage & BDSM games.
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