Bondage & BDSM is a meant to be a litte scary but never in a way that's unsafe. 1: Use Safe Words which instantly halt the game or ease up on the action. You must honour safe words absolutely - it's the only way to ensure the physical and emotional safety of the submissive player. Safe words cant be something you might say during your game so words like "stop" "No" "Please" are no good! Common safewords are: "YELLOW" meaning "Ease Up - I'm n
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1: Use Safe Words which instantly halt the game or ease up on the action. You must honour safe words absolutely - it's the only way to ensure the physical and emotional safety of the submissive player. Safe words cant be something you might say during your game so words like "stop" "No" "Please" are no good! Common safewords are: "YELLOW" meaning "Ease Up - I'm not ready to stop but am feeling a bit unsafe" and "RED" meaning "Stop NOW"

2 Agree Boundaries: and communicate! Any game based on power can resurrect buried feelings in a partner who's been abused. It's important to communicate any no-go areas and vital that boundaries are agreed upon before playing starts.

3. Safe Bondage: When using bondage on your lover, never enclose their nose AND mouth at the same time. Never bind your lover face down on soft furnishing and never leave them tied-up alone. Regularly check toes and fingers for numbness/coolness as these are signs that blood has stopped flowing to the area and its time to untie.

4. Wide Bondage: Use wide, strong bondage like proper Bondage Wrist Cuffs and Bondage Ankle Cuffs Silk scarves may seem gentler & less threatening than proper bondage gear but they can tighten during the the game and pinch - they can even cause permanent nerve damage.

5. Get informed:There are plenty of great books around that tell you how to keep games safe as well as being a good read. Take a look at the FETISH SECTION for books that give advice on how to play safely with bondage & BDSM